You say regularly say YES when you really want to say NO
You often give more in your relationships than you receive
You over-function and act like it’s okay for others to under-function (but secretly resent it)
You fear conflict
You dread disapproval
You are tired of living for the approval of others
You feel manipulated and used but don’t know how to stop it

"After spending 65 years of my life being a chameleon, people pleaser, God has placed me in a position where for my own survival I've had to stand up against a very evil situation. Leslie has helped me tremendously with developing insights to motives and tendencies and I've come a long way. However, I'm realizing that I am probably my own worst enemy - in not establishing and enforcing boundaries. "

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"My favorite part was hearing about other ladies' experiences helped me feel not alone. Helped me stop feeling guilty about being tempted to cope with marriage in ungodly ways. Normal human struggles. My guilt for not being 'perfect' has kept me from ending the marriage. Helped me realize this is not healthy situation for me."

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"I was able to find greater peace about where I've been and where I'm headed due to this course. Don't doubt myself as much when my husband tries to bully me. More sure of me. Continuing with Conquer to stay connected and continue to grow. I don't have a plan laid out for my marriage's future. But it is dead, if ever a marriage were dead. I feel quite 'done'. I don't have the heart to approach him about trying counseling. I know God has a good future and plan for me and it is unfolding everyday even if I can't see around the next bend in the road. Thank you for serving God and us Leslie-you are a great blessing."